tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22016352.post9068794440989829702..comments2023-08-25T10:06:16.506-04:00Comments on The Impending Zenith: The Affairs of Life, Love and the Pursuit of HappinessNailaJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13051264350972635364noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22016352.post-32181018160378965472008-09-26T10:59:00.000-04:002008-09-26T10:59:00.000-04:00Thank you for sharing!It's good to hear that other...Thank you for sharing!<BR/>It's good to hear that other people think and feel the same way :)NailaJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13051264350972635364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22016352.post-75312733588929030822008-09-26T10:54:00.000-04:002008-09-26T10:54:00.000-04:00this is uncanny what you wrote, I had this exact s...this is uncanny what you wrote, I had this exact same conversation with my Girlfriend so she could understand that while I love quite a few girls in my life, she is the one who I choose to be with, call my girlfriend, have sex with, ect. The other girls I care alot about in some cases but she also knows there is a line that is not to be crossed, generally revolving around sex, and then hiding the fact it happened, lying to her.<BR/><BR/>It had nothing to do with courage, much of what you said are core values of how I see a relationship and want the person I call my GF to understand about me, in 6 years a LARGE portion of the girls I met could not understand that because they were stuck in "Snow White land" and had a HUGE problem trusting not only me but themselves I find. I've always been secure and confident with what I want in life,never knew where it woud lead me but thats part of the fun in life :)<BR/><BR/>I also knew that my GF would have to put up with alot of my "crap" and other weirdness that I have no qualms showing off around people. I think that combined with the above paragraph cause alot of the girls to doubt...<BR/><BR/>it also helps Im dierct and for the most part dont care about what the other person thinks about my opnion, because in the end why should they or I care about anyone's opnion. If I like it I put stock in it, if I dont I laugh at the person! (silently or to their face, whatever one brings me more pleasure!)<BR/><BR/>*applaud*--=Armegeddon=--https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377691066904615036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22016352.post-38778763808194747882008-09-25T18:22:00.000-04:002008-09-25T18:22:00.000-04:00Thank you!! I'll definitely look it up :)Thank you!! I'll definitely look it up :)NailaJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13051264350972635364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22016352.post-77632110187170901782008-09-25T15:34:00.000-04:002008-09-25T15:34:00.000-04:00I don't know if you can stomach polemics (some can...I don't know if you can stomach polemics (some can't; they can get tiresome after awhile) but if you can and you're into this topic as your recent blog posts suggest, you might want to pick up a copy of Laura Kipnis' <I>Against Love.</I> She's deliberately provocative in her extended tract that reads like a Marxist analysis of modern-day monogamy. But it's a lot more than that - - she's a spectacular writer and very funny and sharp, and kinda speaks to what you're talking about here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com